WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Upbeat, discreet & fun loving OC man looking to explore his options & step "outside the box" a bit. Not into the bar/club scene so wanted to explore my options here. Not quite sure if the online venue is the ideal scene for me, but I’ll give just about anything a try once. I do know there are quite a bit of "wanna be's", pretenders, players, & people here that apparently have no true desire to do anything but look at pictures & trade a naughty email or two, solely to feed their own little "get off" sessions. If that's your game, save us both time & effort and do not flirt or hotlist me. I’m for real & am only interested in same. As for me...I’m ultra clean, discreet, & 100% drug/ disease free. 6' 1” tall, 220lbs, short dk brown hair, hazel eyes & short goatee. Easy going & friendly, considerate, respectful & unselfish...discreet, uninhibited & playful... with excellent sense of humor & a strong taste for the erotic. I believe flirting, teasing, foreplay & seduction are needed to generate the heat, passion & intensity that add to quality of the intimacy I seek. I am clean, well groomed and well spoken & interested in folks who can communicate on mental, physical AND intellectual levels. Prefer people between 30-50, but willing to consider others if considerate and sincere. Friendship & getting to know each other is essential, but not into trading hundreds of pics & thousands of emails before actually meeting. And when I say meeting, I mean meeting, not "meating". If there’s any chance of it progressing to the physical, you’re first going to have to appeal to the mental & peral, meaning there must be some chemistry. I won’t meet you for the first time in a hotel, a car, or at your home. Neutral, public ground & a positive connection are necessary "first time evils" in this world. Not into head games, pretenders, or users. Gold diggers save your time & look elsewhere. Seek upbeat, relatively attractive, & excitable partners who want a friend as well as a playmate. Retired but busy with peral activities so have some flexibility with schedule with a little pre-planning. Prefer long-term or regular partners to one night stands, & require that all potential partners be clean, disease free and sober non-drug users. If what you seek is someone with whom to share good times, add some excitement & pleasure to your life, & treat you as you want to be treated, you’ve likely found him. Take a chance...live...write me. Hope to hear from you soon!

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person: REAL, SINCERE, CLEAN, NON-PLAYERS who truly want to meet & enjoy laughs, good times, excitement & some memorable quality intimacy/passion. Cammers and spammers need not apply.

Be happy in who and what you are, know what you want, like and have a strong sex drive. Enjoy being appreciated, desired, even pampered…but also enjoy giving in return.

Friends, FWB, playmates, or even potential LTR are all open doors with the right person.

You should have a good sense of humor, be clean, disease free & not addicted to drugs or alcohol. Prefer folks who are easy going, unselfish, sincere, appreciative, & who seek to enjoy fun times with someone who will respect them, treat them well, & make them laugh, smile, & perhaps curl their toes

You should be spontaneous, uninhibited, expressive, have a strong libido, as well as in touch with your sensual/erotic side. Cleanliness and good grooming is appreciated.

Also please be sure to either have a photo on your profile page or send one in your contact with me.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Toby Keith, AC/DC, Beach Boys, CCR

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Mutual Respect

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Sandra Bullock....her cute face makes me think of "the
girl next door".

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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