Having been a member here for almost 8 years, I can say—Wow, have times changed. It used to be that "ADULT" friend finder meant you were here to meet some cool people—people with things in common—with the ultimate goal that, "If we hit it off, we'll have some great playtime." In fact I met a woman that is still one of my best friends in the world here (too bad we live cross-country from each other now). Now it seems, the whole place is filled either with fakes or with people demanding respect & telling you if you don't talk properly, you will get no dinner... much less sex. Well F that. Their loss. If you've suffered through my soapbox (not that anyone reads anything here), carry on. (Apparently, the F word got my profile banned. Wowzers.) We're very secure in our relationship, devoted, and there's absolutely no drama. We're professional, intelligent, we make people laugh, and we can conjugate a sentence. (Though I enjoy the Oxford comma — he's opposed.) We don't cheat, we don't play alone, and we don't play with men or other couples. I'm the bisexual one, not him. Having a woman and man at the same time, is my idea of perfection. We've found that our relationships with women bring us even closer. There's nothing more satisfying than working hard at pleasing a fabulous woman—together. He's also quite capable of taking care of both of us for a long time... so for us, three's a charm. He's very sexy — everyone tells me he looks like Richard Gere. He's got a fabulous, slim, hairless, athletic body. A perfect dick and gorgeous ass. He's smart as a whip and funny as hell. I'm tall, slim and athletic. Ex-model, brunette and still in shape. I've got a quirky sense of humor and a busy career. I've been bisexual all my adult life, so there's no bi-curiousity here —it's a proven fact. A husband and a wife, for me, would be perfection. ;)

My Ideal Person We're looking for an attractive, fit, toned woman who takes care of herself. (You don't have to be a gym rat, but you should care.) We love intelligence, wit, someone who's fun, daring and adventurous, loves life, and especially someone we like as a person... we'd really like a woman who lives in the area and wants a repeat performance if we all get along. (You should also enjoy laughing, as we're a couple of dorks.)

Physically, we're more prone to go for the moderate to tall, smaller breasted, slender body types... (he prefers blondes, I prefer brunettes... so we're really not so picky there. heh). But we really don't rule anyone out on body type as long as you're in shape.

Work is completely insane for us right now. If you write and you'd like us to respond quickly, please send a pic since we're usually running on very little time.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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