I will keep this brief ... because I wonder if anyone actually reads these. (And yes, I know, I am not the first and I won't be the last to say that. :-) ) So if you actually read this, then send me a message. Who I am ... a scientist with a poetic soul. If you know what I mean, come talk to me. If not, come talk to me anyway and find out. :-) Also, I have reverted to standard membership, and so can no longer blithely visit profiles and do emails. If you want to contact me, let me know. P.S. I have full face and other photos in my albums. I prefer not to put it all out here in full view. And the glasses are only for reading. Wish there were that sort of option available, because in a way the single answer isn't accurate. Also, I use "flirts" to show interest. If that interest is reciprocated, _then_ I send an email. Some of us prefer to take it slow and cautious and the flirt is one way to do that. And if you want to know something ... just ask. Standard Members can contact me freely. [B][COLOR firebrick]WARNING! None of the material included here can be used by any other per or any institution without express written permission.[/COLOR][/B]

My Ideal Person Tall, intelligent, sexy and youthful either in outlook or in reality (because I am too). Don't want much do I?

Really, I am looking first and foremost for some sort of "connection" - intellectual, emotional, physical. I am looking for a friend with benefits, but if magic happens, I would enjoy it if that became a long-term relationship. That said, I am realistic.

I would ask that you have a photo as well, or send a photo. I don't generally converse with those without.

Also, I can actually be a bit shy initially. I will often send a wink and a wave but hold off on sending emails. Don't know why. So go ahead and contact me. Oh, and for all those under 30's from Ghana or Nigeria who send me a wink ... don't expect a reply.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dixie Chicks, Tom Waits, Eric Clapton, Salmonella Dub,
...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have fantasy dreams, but I don't live there.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage, That's what I know, I would like to try more

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. The emotional and intellectual engagement
are important to me - face-to-face encounters to get to
know a person.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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