I am a relatively normal, caring, strong, young-at-heart 45 year old male with a lot to share. Divorced over six years ago and now seeking good company and fun. I am single and I am seeking to both make friends, have a lot of safe fun on the way and possibly find that someone special for LTR. Whilst more than happy and experienced within a normal or 'vanilla' role I have a dominant streak which likes to play sometimes, although I should stress that I'm not into terribly into pain as pleasure is far more effective, and am adept at shibari (go on, I dare you to ask). Just for good measure I also have a touch of switch/sub in me which adds more variety, which is certainly the spice of life. Have been told in the past that I have an oral fixation - there's nothing wrong with that is there? I have a marvellous collection of toys with which I enjoy spending many hours ensuring a woman achieves total satisfaction. The brain is by far the most powerful errogenous zone and I love to discuss and fulfil fantasies. Any progression to real life meetings will be preceded with plenty of discussion, and followed by lots of passion.

My Ideal Person An intelligent, openminded and uninhibited woman. I'd be lying if I said looks weren't important, but they're not as important as personality/character.

Your willingness to realise your fantasies and explore your limits with a dominant male will be a huge advantage to both of us. Passionate. Imaginative. Honest. Love foreplay, can't get enough of it, can you? Why get your rocks off in 10 minutes when you can make the earth move in hours? You can fill in the rest as we won't really know till we meet will we? If you're only a standard member intelligence will help you to contact me as moc tod liamtoh ta dnobtseb

I'd love to meet with a couple too, just for some NSA fun. I've enjoyed quite a few MFF situations in the past but am intrigued by the dynamics of MMF and would love to explore this. I am most definitely straight so have no interest in male to male contact but am sure there are plenty of couples out there seeking to explore too

Life must be lived forwards but can only be understood backwards (there's a clue for you)

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
AC/DC, Dido, Evernescence, Mozart

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
So many. Tell me one of yours...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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