We are a happily married couple who have found we love having extra partners with us in the bedroom. We believe in quality over quantity, and do not do 1-night stands or meet without getting to know each other first. We are lucky enough to have a fun, trusting, ongoing relationship with a single male friend for an extended period of time now. We have come to really enjoy our new lifestyle and the freedom it offers and seek to pursue a same similar friendship with another single male OR explore further with a couple, as this is still new for us. A few rules; FIRST, we will not reply to profiles that lack pics or just have dick pics. SECOND, please read our profile. We primarily are looking for patient, respectful, non-pushy single men for her pleasure and MFM. In adidition, we started out looking for couples and would still love to meet the right couples for us. We are interested in watching and swapping partners and experimenting. THIRD, we will need to see a face pic and other non-erotic pics at some point (we assume you have explicit pics given that you are on this site) before we even thinking of meeting. FOURTH, we will only provide a face pic once we have seen some of yours (AND SHE IS INTERESTED). We respect your privacy and need for discretion just as we expect you to respect ours. FIFTH, we have s and both work so our time is not always our own, which for us means planning our dates in advance. If we are delayed in getting back to you please understand that is the rea why. And Finally, a well written profile with pics makes this whole process much easier. Ideally, we're looking for people who are interested in establishing some level of connection first. For us a connection starts outside the bedroom before it can happen inside the bedroom. If things seem right and we click, then we can move on from there based on common interests and understandings. What this means is that we move a bit more slowly, as some form of natural progression is important to us. It also means we are highly unlikely to play on the first meeting (although we never say never). We are both clean shaven and ideally would generally prefer the same. We have a great relationship and sex life, this exploration into the lifestyle has been icing on an already tasty cake. This is a shared experience, where her pleasure is his enjoyment. She holds all the cards as far as what does or does not happen, and the pace at which things proceed. If she's having fun he is highly likely to be as well. While we are careful and cautious, the right per/couple is in for a ride once she reaches her comfort zone, so patience is a virtue. It may be multiple meets before she/we feel the right vibe. We are not "public" with our lifestyle and are very discreet due to our careers and families. [B]Deal-breakers:[/B] -Being overly persistent or aggressive

My Ideal Person So, what else are we looking for?
-Personality and patience
-Maturity, honesty, intelligence, open-mindedness, sense of humor
-No smokers. No drugs please.
-Discretion is an absolute *must*
-Drama free.
-Secure couples

While we are not necessarily "picky", we are looking for H/W proportionate men with a general age range of 38-58.

Partners for her:
We seek patient, respectful, non-pushy men for her pleasure and MFM, preferably married men. She prefers mature athletic men.

Couples:
Similarly, we hope to meet patient, respectful, non-pushy couples for laughs, shared tastes, and we'll see from there. Since we have not been intimate with another couple yet, would like to find couples who are also new or experienced couples who are willing to move slow. He prefers mature curvy women.
We would be open to both shared and separate encounters.