You want to know something about me? Well, the first thing I have to say about me is that I don't really like to talk about myself. I was raised to believe that talking about yourself is bad form. If you do something praiseworthy, surely others will notice and make appropriate comments. I have 3 simple rules. Don't hurt others. Don't break things. And don't hurt yourself. I'm a simple, but somewhat complex per. I don't especially enjoy having fun--I haven't been on a rollercoaster ride in years. And even then, I puked. I'd much rather spend my time doing something interesting. For example, a while back I went to Calico ghost town. I loved seeing the folds in the earth revealed in the exposed mountainsides. I also loved seeing the mudpots down by the Salton Sea. I love music. David Byrne and Brian Eno are my favorites. I also like me some Ry Cooder, Baba Maal, Yo la Tengo, Sarah Vaughn and BB King. But I don't particularly like going out to night clubs to get drunk. That doesn't really count as a musical experience. I prefer experiences that somehow enrich me as a per. Do you feel me? Obviously, you don't have to. This is a big and wonderful world. Each of us is on our own journey. I wish everyone well.

My Ideal Person Mostly, what I like and choose to spend my around, is good people--people who are pleasant and fun to be around. Surely, I am interested in likeminded people, but I'm not interested in clones. I do want to be with people that have minds of their own, but also understand that everyone else does too. Variety is interesting.
Of course, this is a sex dating site, and that is why I am here. I like women. Large, shapely women that I can feel against me if I'm ever lucky enough to be with them. And I especially like big, sexy black women. But race is more of a tie-breaker than a limitation. I'm attracted to all big, voluptuous, sexy women. You all make the sleeping little head stir around and stick his head up.
I'd much rather be with an inteligent woman, one that get the attention of the big head. Conversation is a bit overrated--at work, all day long, I talk to women who aren't going to have sex with me . But I do enjoy an inteligent, insightful, amusing conversation. Is there anything better than when someone tells you something that you hadn't thought of?
I'm not looking for a relationship, but an ongoing friendship would be a good thing.