I'm a strange mix of geek and...not geek I suppose. I've always been into reading, video game and computer games. Of late I've also gotten quite fixated on exercise, martial arts, and swordfighting (competitive fencing, SCA. So I guess geek from a different angle. I work out six days a week, not counting my job, which involves alot of walking and lifting. I recently got out of a long term relationship that didn't do me any favors while it was going on, and I just want to enjoy myself with other people who share the same carefree attitude. I'm interested in 1 on 1, small group, and large group situations. While I've never experimented, I'm open minded and willing to try anything at least once. I'm cynical, and have an irreverent sense of humor.

My Ideal Person I'm straight, have no issue with being with a married woman, discretion is not a priority for me, if it is for someone I'm with, I'll respect that and act accordingly. One night stands are fine, as are ongoing casual relationships. If such things turn into true friendships as well, that would be quite nice. To me, foreplay and sensuality are right up there with actual sex in terms of importance, and at the same time I have no issue with skipping right to business every now and then, if that is what the situation calls for.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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