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benard69 66M/66F  

8/17/2018 10:42 am

 Yeah Good Luck...


lonelyinaizu 62M
17 posts
8/17/2018 7:25 pm

 Happy Birthday Chelle!

Now for the less celebratory comments... I suggest that you proceed with caution. In the best case scenario, things are as you think and everything turns out fab; in the worst case scenario, there is massive misunderstanding and a good friendship is ruined. This is not a 50/50 choice.

You have written that your friendship with the girl in question started before she identified as bisexual. You do not write that she has spoken about her sex life after finding her bisexual side. Has she? You write that you are "not sure how she's feeling now..." That last comment should give you pause.

You have written that you have spoken to her about finding a second female to join you and your husband, but have not asked her to be the one. I take it that she did not volunteer. Perhaps that was prudence on her part, perhaps a lack of interest.

You have also written that she has recently shared with you that it has been a while since she has been with anyone sexually, and you wonder if that was a hint that she may be interested. It is difficult to say without knowing the context of the conversation, and the rest of what was said.

Why not let her dictate what happens (and the pace, if something should).

While having drinks to celebrate your birthday, recount the details in your story of trying to find someone to join you and your husband; let him join you in making comments about his feelings of the process. Ask her opinion; as the conversation develops, ask if she has ever been in the situation you want (ffm). If you feel it propitious, ask if she has ever been in that kind of situation with a friend...

Her answers should leave little doubt. If it goes as you hope, the levels of desire will be hitting the roof as you ask that last question. If she answers differently, you still keep a good friend, and possibly deepen the friendship.

Good luck, xoxoxo, lia


justpervin29 50M
2598 posts
8/18/2018 6:51 am

 HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY Birthday hope your day is all you ever dreamed and wanted and more Enjoy your day you deserve it and so hope your birthday wish comes true
Smile - you never know who may need one
justpervin29 - comments are most welcomed.


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