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What is a bad boy?  

sam197pulsar 37M
0 posts
2/21/2018 12:09 am
What is a bad boy?

What is a 'bad boy"?
Washes the dishes/ Beer guzzler / Beats women up
psycho /A total Jerk / Sociopaths
their lifestyle sits firmly in Loserville and Nofutureland
someone who breaks hearts and feels no responsibility or remorse.
They puts her down, abuses her, cheats on her
they are very selfish, egoistical, and are immature
Someone who takes drugs, commits crimes or beats women
All of the above


Have a wonderful day


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/24/2018 4:47 am

A fool is the gentleman. He doormats himself among independent women.
A man playing gentleman thinks himself gallant, but he is a fool, today.
A young woman looking for fun uses the fool to get fed and gifted, and settles her sexual desires with the exciting bad boy.

If you want to play gentleman, today, you will need to learn to say , "No" to the women wanting whatever favors or special undeserved treatment , learn to balance good and bad, otherwise, you're an idiot if you don't learn this.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/24/2018 4:33 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Bad boys are notorious for being exciting because they’re dangerous. But being bad isn’t the only way to be exciting. A good guy who truly cares about her will always be willing to show his love to her.

    Whether or not he is…or even wants to be, financially successful, is not what security is about. It’s about stability, honesty and maturity –3 things that lack in the “bad boy.”

    In the long run, often times the good guy comes out on top. His character and integrity stop being taken for granted and begin to be sought after. He becomes a commodity rather than a distraction, and the bad boy gets grown out of.
Bad boys are notorious for being exciting because they’re dangerous. ... ... Not necessarily. They're just mostly aloof, he goes his own way, and he knows how to say, "No" to women. Women respect this , and women get excited by this. .....and he gets laid.

Stop trying to pretend to be the white knight save a ho gentleman.

But being bad isn’t the only way to be exciting. .... You're taking the word , "Bad" way too literally. Give your mom back her vagina. Go talk to your dad.

A good guy who truly cares about her will always be willing to show his love to her. ... Sure, but he may not be the man she wants.

Whether or not he is…or even wants to be, financially successful, is not what security is about. .... Like it or not, for hundreds of thousand of years, women have been more attracted to the more successful man. Today, that's financial success.
You can skip around playing gentleman doormat all you want, but the women will want the more successful man, even if he is a bit aloof. Talk to your dad about that , too.

It’s about stability, honesty and maturity ....Not always honesty. "Stability" typically means a good income. "Maturity" can be dull and boring. Depends on the woman, and most women your age, are looking for "Stability". Not so much the other two.

–3 things that lack in the “bad boy.” ... Wrong. A bad-boy kind of guy can be incredibly stable, and he's exciting to her.. Mature and honest is overrated.

In the long run, often times the good guy comes out on top. ... Sure when women are in their 40's and above, all used up, tired with another mans children, then she says she wants a sucker [aka: gentleman], because she has had her fun. So goody goody white knight save a ho gets the left overs.

Go have some fun, kid. Talk to your dad, put away your "Save -a-ho" costume, learn to say , "No" to women.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/23/2018 4:41 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Women prefer gentlemen.

    Gentlemen listen. Unlike other jerks out there who just like to talk and brag about thing they have and what they don’t have or anything blah blah, gentlemen mostly listen.
    Gentlemen are supportive to her goals and dreams with warm encouragement.
    Gentlemen respect her own privacy over anything.Gentlemen just don’t intervene to her personal matters if she is not comfortable sharing with. Gentlemen make their women feel special. Gentlemen never abandon their loved ones. This is such a wonderful trait anyone could ever do. No one likes to be abandoned. This is just an act of the cowards.
You need to stop glamorizing the "Gentleman" costume. In the 21st century , where women are socially equal to men , a man playing in his gentleman costume is a fool, who has placed himself as inferior to women.

Women prefer a man who can make her hot.

Women won't generally say, "No", to a fool, who wants to behave this way, any more than you would say "No" to a woman who wanted to give you a blowjob.

If you had a relationship with a woman , and you invited her out to lunch, and she invited her girlfriend to come along for lunch too, are you going to pay for her friends meal , too? ......No, you shouldn't. Your woman can pay for her friend, or her friend can give you some money for her meal.

Do not be a fool. Women don't deserve special treatment.

If she has something worthy of listening to, then listen. But if she is saying a bunch of , Blah , blah blah blah, walk away, she has girlfriends, gay friends for the "Blah blah blah" she wants to say.

Sam, you need to buck up. Being the bad-boy, is advantageous to the male.
Being the "Gentleman", is just insulting himself. Completely degrading behavior today.

A fool [or an assigned doorman] opens doors for a woman.

An inferior [or an assigned waiter] pulls a chair out for a woman.

A fool [or a paid mover] carries things for women .

A woman is not any more valuable than you are.

A women is not just given respect, she must earn respect. That is social equality.

Now man up. This is the 21st century and women have fought to be treated as social equals. You're glamorizing the doormat.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/22/2018 6:47 am

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Bad boy is a not leader, he is not confident
    is in bad physical shape
    is coward and he accepts fear
    has a no sense of humor
    is not a worker and has no purpose in life
    is a not warrior a worrier
    Does not knows who he is, his values
    is stubborn and arrogant
    Does not treats people with respect...

    Smart women don’t date bad boys.
    Smart women date refined gentlemen who know how to treat a woman.
Bad boy is a not leader, .... Doesn't have to be a leader. He personifies leadership. That means he fools the woman. To her, he is exciting, and she lets him bang her.

he is not confident ...Actually he is confident. The term is , "He has game". If he didn't have game, he could not attempt to be the bad boy.

is in bad physical shape ... You're wrong there , too. These guys can be in great physical shape.

is coward and he accepts fear ... Now you're just making stuff up . So you're wrong.

has a no sense of humor ... Nope. These guys can have a great sense of humor. If you were getting more ass than a toilet seat, you'd have a great sense of humor , too.

is not a worker ... .I don't know where you're getting your information, but that is wrong , too.... some of these guys even own their own companies.

and has no purpose in life is a not warrior a worrier ... You're funny. Who the fuck is telling you all this stuff?

Does not knows who he is, his values ..... Seriously, you're wrong. These absolutes you've mentioned are way off.

is stubborn and arrogant ... Nothing wrong with that, if he is. That's part of his charm .

Does not treats people with respect.. ... Maybe not, but so what. Besides that, respect is earned, first.

Smart women don’t date bad boys. ... .Yes they do. Even smart women like that thrill he can give her, she can't get from a shy , or nice guy.

Smart women date refined gentlemen who know how to treat a woman. ... No she doesn't date them. She might hangout with them, and she will friendzone these guys who prance about playing gentleman and treating her.... but she doesn't get aroused by these guys. She wants the exciting man.

So she'll excuse herself from being "Treated" at the restaurant, go to the women's room, make a phone call and tell the bad boy she'll be over for a fuck in about 2 hours after she says goodnight to the sucker who is treating her to dinner..

You need to get up off the dirt and tell women "No", and tell her , "Come here and do me, woman". Women respond favorably to men who are confident , strong, and have money and power, fame , too.

Your meme, you found in a vaginized men file, says, "Do women want a bad boy or a sweet guy who treats her like a queen"....... When she is young and hot , and with a low mileage pussy, she wants the excitement only a bad boy can give her.... when she is all used up and has great miles on her pussy, and maybe some kids.... then she wants that poor sap who plays nice guy in his gentleman costume.

Sam, you're so funny. You're trying too hard to be a poser, and over looking the fact that the more exciting man gets more women into bed.


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
2/22/2018 12:01 am

All the above .. depends on the situation .


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/21/2018 9:15 pm

    Quoting sam197pulsar:
    Bad boys have all the attributes that are necessary for a short term roller coaster relationship.

    When you're(women) with a bad boy, most of your(her) friends and family will be wondering what the hell are you(she is) thinking lol, but one of those things that seems like a good idea at the time laugh.

    Then, as is usually the case when playing with fire, you get burnt one way or another, and learn to put those kind of men down and back away slowly in future (hopefully).

    . There is nothing "good" about bad boys. They suck
Actually there is some good to "Being" the bad boy....he get's laid more than the shy /"Nice boy".

So that's why being a "Bad boy" is a pay off.

But still , as I said, "Bad boys" are not necessarily wife beaters , alcoholics, psycho, sociopaths, dopers ,junkies. etc.. as you named them off to be.
That is poor profiling.

The problem : Women find these bad-boy types attractive usually when she is young, because she is attracted to exciting men, along with men who have power , money and/or fame.

So she goes on that exciting ride, maybe pumps out a couple of kids, and then when she's gets older, she claims that she wants a nice guy, a gentleman.

The nice guy gets the used up portions. She says she's had her fun.

Not much of a prize for the nice guy, an old used up single mom looking for a nice guy to help her pay her debts.

Clearly, you can see the advantage of being the bad-boy, and why this won't stop any time soon.

Also, a woman's "Friends" are usually men she won't sleep with, so these guy friends, are not going to like any man she has sex with.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/21/2018 3:34 am

You really shouldn't listen to Western Women or your mother. What you described, is not at all accurate.

Whom a woman would consider to be a "Bad boy", is a man who will say, "No", to her, he won't always be dependable nor predictable. He is often aloof, yet charming. He goes his own way when he feels like it.


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