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I had a guy very much like this guy your talking about. One night i had company over just for dinner and chatting the guy drove by my home at least 20 times. He also kept calling I finally after the 30 drive by and many unanswered the calls the finally time I got a picture of his car and plates on his car and i called him and told him he either stop or he will be in some with the local police for Stocking me. I also told him if you drive by one more time the police will be called. Well he didnt like and it got worst so i called the police gave them his plate number and phone and he got a visit from the police. He stopped because they told him i could press charges for hassement He would end up in jail for a few days Now He Is Gone LadyTeddieBear 
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I can understand him needing to understand. She has manipulated the hell out of him. She sounds like the type that would call the cops, she is immature. He will hopefully see the possible consequences for him, his career and family. He should run, in the opposite direction. Relationships shouldnt be that difficult.
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If he showed at my door, I would not let him in. He needs closure. I would arrange a meet in public to talk to him and end it. I would not meet him in private. Bad things happen that way sometimes. He is in pain, as his friend I would be there for him. Time will help him heal but he needs to accept it. He is in a divorce, has kids, and dealing with this drama. Poor guy needs to step back a bit.
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It is a fools errand to try to reason with a person who is unreasonable and cleaarly doess not want communication . There is a woman on every corner if the one on this corner treats you wrong or tosses you away , just go to the next corner and hope she is a much better person , you never run out of corners .....never go back there is nothing you can change to get what you did not get then ...
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He is damm lucky she didnt just call 911 on him! NO always means NO, and blocking someone online is as big a NO as you can do these days ! And a stalking charge can get you put in jail very easily, which in this case would sure have messed up his divorce and custody fight royally. Someday she MAY tell him why he was given the boot, but usually a guy does know, he just doesnt wish to admit it to himself. As to committing violence over a lost love, come on people, those doing that have a very large screw loose and their friends & family, assuming they have them, should have noticed and done something before it got to that state. Now, I am alone, have no family, no close friends because of my cross country move a year ago, no one would know if I had that kinda screw loose, but I am fairly unique in this world, and because of that I dont have any major screws loose, a few small ones maybe, lol. But committing violence is never the answer unless defending yourself against a deadly physical attack. Or defending an innocent from the same. And by our countrys dependence on meds rather than treatment as we now are doing, these things will only get worse, as without treatment, no one is monitoring those screws comming loose ! Sorry for the rant, but I see this everyday, and felt the need to speak out.
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first, your profile pic is  . you look so scholarly. second, you advised your friend, 'the darrell' well. no one, man or woman, wants to have the uninvited show up, unannounced at their door. and how does he plan on having her just 'talk' to him?? he is clearly making no sense. at all. if this woman wanted to have a dialogue with him, she would make it known; obviously the signs are there that she doesn't. perhaps in time she will but for now she has no interest in even speaking to, let alone seeing him. tell 'the darrell' don't poke the bear. leave well enough alone.
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A little late to this but glad he didn't drop by her place... do you think it was because he didn't have her addy or was it more like he wised up a bit first? I hope it was the second one. I nodded to your 'ville as I hustled through last week lol! Love the pic too btw.
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