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Having a lover join in??  

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
15144 posts
8/17/2018 11:02 am
Having a lover join in??


Would you and your significant other ever invite someone to join you for a threesome???

If you're married... would it be a healthy choice???
Do you think adding a third person in your committed relationship would cause problems???

WOULD YOU HAVE A THIRD PERSON JOIN YOU AND YOUR LOVER IN BED???

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1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
8/17/2018 11:07 am

I would, but not her.


tmacshane26 39M
2092 posts
8/17/2018 11:08 am

That depends on if you both agree. I don't have a problem with a threesome but my partner and I would have to talk over the details we do with another guy or female first. Have to set the boundaries first. If she is not okay with then I will agree with her.

It could start problems in the bedroom if she or you get too involved with the 3rd person. I had that issue a few years ago and it started a fight between the two and they got a divorce. She said it wasn't my fault, that they had issues in their marriage. But to this day I still believe I caused it.

I saw you on cam for a few seconds then you went off. Hope to see you again later today or tonight, or maybe we can chat later tonight on my night off when your not too busy. Let me know if your available.

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sweetymanxxx 56M

8/17/2018 11:13 am

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EWGuy 64T
563 posts
8/17/2018 11:17 am

Yes and it does not affect the love we have for each other. We only play together or we don't play. That's our rule.


Homefry222 57M
66 posts
8/17/2018 11:21 am

To each his own but personally, I prefer to disappoint women 1 at a time.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/17/2018 11:24 am



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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/17/2018 11:24 am

    Quoting tmacshane26:
    That depends on if you both agree. I don't have a problem with a threesome but my partner and I would have to talk over the details we do with another guy or female first. Have to set the boundaries first. If she is not okay with then I will agree with her.

    It could start problems in the bedroom if she or you get too involved with the 3rd person. I had that issue a few years ago and it started a fight between the two and they got a divorce. She said it wasn't my fault, that they had issues in their marriage. But to this day I still believe I caused it.

    I saw you on cam for a few seconds then you went off. Hope to see you again later today or tonight, or maybe we can chat later tonight on my night off when your not too busy. Let me know if your available.

    Love you Shaney Cat


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/17/2018 11:24 am



THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/17/2018 11:24 am

    Quoting EWGuy:
    Yes and it does not affect the love we have for each other. We only play together or we don't play. That's our rule.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/17/2018 11:25 am

    Quoting Homefry222:
    To each his own but personally, I prefer to disappoint women 1 at a time.
That's funny

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ShowHerRopes 51M

8/17/2018 11:27 am

I think it totally depends on the negotiation... and also if everyone involved gets pleasure out of it. If everyone is satisfied the chances of it being a problem might be lower...


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/17/2018 11:29 am

    Quoting ShowHerRopes:
    I think it totally depends on the negotiation... and also if everyone involved gets pleasure out of it. If everyone is satisfied the chances of it being a problem might be lower...
What about jealousy??

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Story435 76M
3791 posts
8/17/2018 11:49 am

Hello Kitten
I had one gf that wanted to do this but we never got to do this it would be fun. She wanted another girl to explore to see what it would be like! GF now I do think she would but that's ok!
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CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
8/17/2018 11:49 am

My BEST threesomes are the ones my wife doesn't find out about! haaaa

BUT, in a more general context, with the right combination of people, 3-somes are great fun. Also, don't discount just watching, or being watched, with a "good friend" and another person.

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benard69 66M/66F  

8/17/2018 11:56 am

We have and We both have enjoyed our experiences with either Male or Female..Zero issues or Jealousy..


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
8/17/2018 12:15 pm

I was the third person in a threesome a couple of times and it seemed to go fine.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/17/2018 1:46 pm

Having a lover join in?? .....No.

Would you and your significant other ever invite someone to join you for a threesome??? .....No. I did these 3 ways, [myself and two women] in my 20s, and 30s.

If you're married... would it be a healthy choice??? .. "Healthy"?..... If we are going to talk "Healthy", then forget about getting married. If you're married and you decide you need a 3 way, or an open marriage? Your marriage is through. Done. Finished. Over. Metaphorically, you are reaching your hand out beyond the bars of your matrimony cage and pretending.

Do you think adding a third person in your committed relationship would cause problems??? .... It could . Just about anything is possible. But then getting married, can cause problems, too.......Like wanting a 3 way.

WOULD YOU HAVE A THIRD PERSON JOIN YOU AND YOUR LOVER IN BED?. ..... No.

Better to just go out and get sex with a different person. [And if you're married or involved with someone, and you're doing that, .....don't be an idiot , keep it to yourself, don't mention anything about what you did, not to anyone , especially not on social media , ever. Tell no person.

Don't even tell your pets........ you might be overheard.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
8/17/2018 5:18 pm

I'm someone who tends to lean toward being the third wheel in couples. Why? Because honestly, I've found there is just way less drama in the situation. Had one drama situation, over the years with this lifestyle, and that was just because one of them was lying. I have had ,and still do FWB's relationships, but most of those end on a sour note. No matter how up front I am on what I'm looking for.

The rest, were all comfortable in their relationships and enjoyed the lifestyle. Some of the most committed and loving people I've met on here. Besides the liar, I stayed friends with the couples to this day, after they moved on or moved away. Most had been married for years before I came into the picture, and they're still married today. More than I can say for a lot of my "normal" friends, so apparently it isn't the marriage killer some would believe.

Not arguing either side of the coin, because in reality, what fits your lifestyle choice might not fit mine. But it doesn't mean either is wrong or one is better than the other. Be honest with yourself, your partner/partners, and enjoy life, and sex while you're here.

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Horny_Cat68 55M  
582 posts
8/17/2018 7:13 pm

Personally I'm a 1-on-1 kind of guy, never been interested in adding a 3rd or 4th. or more.

I love the way you make me horny without even doing anything.


A1Xpleaser 65M
417 posts
8/17/2018 9:22 pm

As much as a threesome of FMF is almost every man's fantasy I would not do that with someone I truly cared about. One on one is my game.


JimmyB7474 59M

8/18/2018 1:54 pm

LOL Yeah, then a fourth, then a fifth, then a sixth. All in all 4 women and 2 men counting me. Things got a little confusing when the weed and alcohol began to kick in. That story is posted in my blog if you want details. Jimmy B.

My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
8/18/2018 6:14 pm

I would, I have with past loves as well as past wives. And a few of them have done the same including me in the funn. With my current FWB, she doesnt seem to be into it, but I would be open if she changed her mind.


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