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Can Anyone Tell Me......  

GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1810 posts
4/27/2018 4:02 pm
Can Anyone Tell Me......

Now I know weird things go on - on this site all the time. It has numerous issues, almost on a daily basis.

And it's aggravating as hell some times....

But this is weird and I'm not sure if it's a "glitch" or something else.

Soooooo......Can anyone tell me how this happens? (see pics below)

How can the same exact profile have two different locations that are about 837 miles away from each other? The profile name is the same, the contents of the profile are the same, the stats listed are the same.

But the profile has one location listed if you view the whole profile (Griffin Georgia) and a different location (Trevose Pa) if you just hover over the profile while viewing it in a listing of people in your area.

Notice in both screenshots (I obliterated the profile name a bit) that the profile says it is 4 miles away from my location on both! Huh?

Trevose, Pa is about 4 miles from me.

But Griffin, Georgia is (as previously mentioned), approximately 837 miles.

Yikes.....I'm still trying to figure this one out.....

Just makes me SMH and say WTF......lol

Hopefully the screenshots will stay put....I hear that's a common glitch lately on here.....ugh!

Well the pics are not able to be added to the blog yet...I chatted with customer service and got the usual "We're working on it" So please check back if you'd like to see the screenshots that help to illustrate the Twilight zone effect of this site....lol

UPDATE>>>>this profile now has a location of Dayton NV. and a few weeks later he's in Holland, MI..... so who knows where this guy really lives....lol




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TB5758 65M/67F  
577 posts
4/27/2018 4:48 pm

Trevose could be a travel location and GA is his home. A lot of people have consistent travel locations. I know because I have see what you are referring to. some people are in "our area" twice a month and want to get together in their company sponsored hotel room on a Tuesday Night! Fuck that we work too. Hope that helps. Oh and there is a Jerk off in South Philly that has the same picture and like a new profile everyday. Best of luck.


92camaro66 57M
1753 posts
4/27/2018 4:58 pm

this shit is nuts..... someone thought i was in another state today too


benard69 66M/66F  

4/27/2018 5:07 pm

On two of many sites owned by this shit hole corp...Fucking game players!


nookieslave1 46M
1 post
4/27/2018 5:48 pm

yea the mobile site barely works and the chat doesn't work at all


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
4/27/2018 6:10 pm

    Quoting TB5758:
    Trevose could be a travel location and GA is his home. A lot of people have consistent travel locations. I know because I have see what you are referring to. some people are in "our area" twice a month and want to get together in their company sponsored hotel room on a Tuesday Night! Fuck that we work too. Hope that helps. Oh and there is a Jerk off in South Philly that has the same picture and like a new profile everyday. Best of luck.
Yup, I've seen a few duplicate profiles that travelers have set up... the "advantage" of a free membership.

I have to laugh tho because I've YET to find a guy who travels to my area (also your area) twice a month and wants to get together in his company sponsored hotel room on a Tuesday night! If a guy like that, who fit my demographic preferences, came along I'd probably be all OVER that!


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
4/27/2018 6:14 pm

No doubt, both profiles were FAKE, the scammers have a habit of using the same photos on several profiles, all with different location, and usually over a 1,000 miles apart.

There is absolutely no QUALITY CONTROL with new profiles on this site.

Getting to the "Glitch" factor of this site in the past week and a half, it's getting worse, not better.
Site is going to be losing a lot of paying members after this one.
Most photos don't show, you play hell even trying to view a profile, everything if it works is slower than hell.
Was lucky to even get logged in today, almost afraid to log out, as the site may just crash and burn and then be gone.

Read where one member called the site, and believe it or not, they know there's a problem, but that took him about 45 minutes to get through to someone.

Great way to run a web-site, eh ??


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
4/27/2018 6:29 pm

or..it could be he never logged out of his home computer from the site and is near you with the mobile app on his phone or laptop..

woop woop


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
4/27/2018 6:49 pm

This site has changed my name BUT only in some places. In chat it is what it is suppose to be. If click on my name when in there the name is HasteBeatswaltz. That wrong name is in other places. This happened a few years ago. Two separate times our sexual orientation and a few other pieces of information was changed on our profiles. That was a few years before the name change. Once when signing in it wasn't to my account. If I remember right once I clicked on whatever it was it then was my account. Nothing suprises me.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


notsure1949 74M
10657 posts
4/27/2018 7:20 pm

have seen same photos in multiple places, make up a profile, make up statements, change locations, there is one guy in Philly that must have 20 different aliases, but each one is for the same town, and he posts as a female in all of them


throatswabber1 54M

4/27/2018 10:34 pm

I'm on the East Coast but sometimes when I open Messenger, it shows as if I am in California. I usually shut down and restart. Can't explain it


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
4/28/2018 1:18 am

Someone probably tripped over a bunch of
wires and cables and their trying but them
all back so it doesn't look like they were there.

or it could be something as simple as a self
destruct sequence going through it's
paces.

I hope everyone remembers how to converse in
person and hasn't forgot how to read body language
,voice inflections and facial expressions.

Using more than all the road!


nicebuttocks1950 74M
330 posts
4/28/2018 2:41 am

There are lots of scammers and fake profiles on this site. Lots of duplicate profiles. I suppose the same goes for everything now days, but I wish there were some way to weed out all the fakes and scammers.
One thing that I object to is O L D and one-timers profiles not being purged from the system. People come on the site for one time, never come back, yet their profile stays on the site seemingly forever. Useless clogging of the system.


Story435 76M
3791 posts
4/28/2018 6:09 am

Hello I think it is someone playing games on this site. I have seen this before gamers and most are fake!
This site been screwed up for five days sucks. Tryed to get on about 2 hours ago it was just like there was no AdultXXXDate. Now that i am on it is very slow.
Butch


CGYMAN66 58M
1247 posts
4/28/2018 10:07 am

same issues everywhere I see, frustrating as heck


let_me_see1 64M

4/30/2018 7:35 am

When I look at videos on this site, many times they will show they are from a different person than I clicked on. And the past two weeks, there were about 4 days when for more than 1/2 the day I could not sign on. Again, when you pay your IT people bananas, you will get monkeys!

Cum follow my blog and feel free to leave a comment. It's what makes the chat interesting!


travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
4/30/2018 11:39 am

I saw a legitimate case of that recently. A woman had spelled out on her profile that she works 3 months at a location, and then moves to another location. She spent 3 months nearby and then sure enough she was in Colorado on a new assignment three months later. So it can happen.

Embrace the suck


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:31 pm

    Quoting  :

Finally the screenshots appeared....lol

I suppose it is possible that they joined other sites owned by Various Inc. but it is weird that it shows the two different locations at the same time.

Who knows.....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:41 pm

    Quoting TB5758:
    Trevose could be a travel location and GA is his home. A lot of people have consistent travel locations. I know because I have see what you are referring to. some people are in "our area" twice a month and want to get together in their company sponsored hotel room on a Tuesday Night! Fuck that we work too. Hope that helps. Oh and there is a Jerk off in South Philly that has the same picture and like a new profile everyday. Best of luck.
I suppose that could be an explanation, but it's weird that the distance from my location is listed as 4 miles away with the profile listed in Georgia.

It's not really too big a deal...just weird. But that's par for the course on here...lol

I'm pretty sure I know about the jerk off you are speaking of. It is ridiculous the number of profiles he has. I've considered reporting him to A*F*F

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:43 pm

    Quoting 92camaro66:
    this shit is nuts..... someone thought i was in another state today too
Hmmmmm....I guess it's more common than I thought. Not surprising though I suppose, there is always one glitch or another on here.

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:46 pm

    Quoting benard69:
    On two of many sites owned by this shit hole corp...Fucking game players!
That could very well be I suppose.....

Just seemed so strange to see one location while viewing and then another while hovering over the listing.

Nothing surprises me on here though..

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:47 pm

    Quoting nookieslave1:
    yea the mobile site barely works and the chat doesn't work at all
Those and a whole lot more it seems. Some days are a real challenge on this site..

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:53 pm

    Quoting sphxdiver:
    No doubt, both profiles were FAKE, the scammers have a habit of using the same photos on several profiles, all with different location, and usually over a 1,000 miles apart.

    There is absolutely no QUALITY CONTROL with new profiles on this site.

    Getting to the "Glitch" factor of this site in the past week and a half, it's getting worse, not better.
    Site is going to be losing a lot of paying members after this one.
    Most photos don't show, you play hell even trying to view a profile, everything if it works is slower than hell.
    Was lucky to even get logged in today, almost afraid to log out, as the site may just crash and burn and then be gone.

    Read where one member called the site, and believe it or not, they know there's a problem, but that took him about 45 minutes to get through to someone.

    Great way to run a web-site, eh ??
I agree with everything you've written. This site is going down hill each week. It seems to be one glitch after another, after another.

I had a live chat when I was having problems loading the screenshots and got the standard, "we're working on it"

They should stop trying to add "features" that never work, and just do a site wide improvement. Their Q&A does suck...

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:54 pm

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    or..it could be he never logged out of his home computer from the site and is near you with the mobile app on his phone or laptop..
Hmmmmm.....maybe. I guess that's as good a guess as any other....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Hahahahahaha....he probably does have a profile on here...

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 3:57 pm

    Quoting Brownie202:
    This site has changed my name BUT only in some places. In chat it is what it is suppose to be. If click on my name when in there the name is HasteBeatswaltz. That wrong name is in other places. This happened a few years ago. Two separate times our sexual orientation and a few other pieces of information was changed on our profiles. That was a few years before the name change. Once when signing in it wasn't to my account. If I remember right once I clicked on whatever it was it then was my account. Nothing suprises me.
Wow that's all weird too....

I do agree....nothing should surprise any of us on here anymore...ugh!

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:00 pm

    Quoting notsure1949:
    have seen same photos in multiple places, make up a profile, make up statements, change locations, there is one guy in Philly that must have 20 different aliases, but each one is for the same town, and he posts as a female in all of them
There seems to be all kinds of shenanigans going on with profiles on this site.

There is a guy from Philly on here who must have over a hundred profiles. All the same stats and A*F*F either allows it to go on, or they really don't check anything.

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:01 pm

    Quoting throatswabber1:
    I'm on the East Coast but sometimes when I open Messenger, it shows as if I am in California. I usually shut down and restart. Can't explain it
Hmmmmm....that's strange..

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:05 pm

    Quoting nicebuttocks1950:
    There are lots of scammers and fake profiles on this site. Lots of duplicate profiles. I suppose the same goes for everything now days, but I wish there were some way to weed out all the fakes and scammers.
    One thing that I object to is O L D and one-timers profiles not being purged from the system. People come on the site for one time, never come back, yet their profile stays on the site seemingly forever. Useless clogging of the system.
Oh I agree there are a lot of scammers and fakes. That's kind of what I thought maybe the one I wrote about was.

It would be nice if they'd get rid of really old profile of members that haven't been on in a really long time. I doubt they will because they probably add those in their "total" members and it makes it look good.

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:07 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello I think it is someone playing games on this site. I have seen this before gamers and most are fake!
    This site been screwed up for five days sucks. Tryed to get on about 2 hours ago it was just like there was no AdultXXXDate. Now that i am on it is very slow.
    Butch
There are lots of game players on this site. It gets very aggravating some days dealing with the issues. It was very slow for me the past few days.

I've been coming on less...

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:10 pm

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    When I look at videos on this site, many times they will show they are from a different person than I clicked on. And the past two weeks, there were about 4 days when for more than 1/2 the day I could not sign on. Again, when you pay your IT people bananas, you will get monkeys!
Geez that's some messed up stuff. Trying to view one video, but getting a totally different one.

You are right....this site is being run by monkeys......lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:14 pm

    Quoting travellerabc123:
    I saw a legitimate case of that recently. A woman had spelled out on her profile that she works 3 months at a location, and then moves to another location. She spent 3 months nearby and then sure enough she was in Colorado on a new assignment three months later. So it can happen.
I'm sure there are perhaps legitimate reasons for stuff like what I wrote about, but this just seemed weird.

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
5/10/2018 1:21 pm

    Quoting  :

Hmmmmm....thank you for the professional explanation for the craziness that goes on - on this site. This site is always experiencing some kind of issues and kinda figured that they have some crappy IT stuff.

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Davidzink 69M

5/23/2018 1:54 am

My self I travel. I go to Florida often, so I change my profile. Lets say in your case we meet up I would and will be traveling thru Philly. Maybe wed want a one night stand or maybe I would want to meet someone there beside you. Although you are quite attractive. I'm in Maine now so I add people in Maine appealing to me as my friends as I return every year. Last year I was in upstate NY for the summer and met a couple First time at that but both were friendly nd hot. I added them. Here the site tells me that Moncton Canada is only 73 miles way. I know better than that. Its four hours away.


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
5/23/2018 10:27 am

    Quoting Davidzink:
    My self I travel. I go to Florida often, so I change my profile. Lets say in your case we meet up I would and will be traveling thru Philly. Maybe wed want a one night stand or maybe I would want to meet someone there beside you. Although you are quite attractive. I'm in Maine now so I add people in Maine appealing to me as my friends as I return every year. Last year I was in upstate NY for the summer and met a couple First time at that but both were friendly nd hot. I added them. Here the site tells me that Moncton Canada is only 73 miles way. I know better than that. Its four hours away.
Well we all know this site has it's glitches, so it could very well be something like that going on.

I suspect this guy is gonna have a tough time finding a playmate since no one will know where he is at any given time. Or perhaps he will be a very lucky man, since he seems to be all over....lol.

According to his updates in the past year he has been in Griffin Georgia, Dayton and Reno Nevada, and 5 days ago he was in Trevose Pa.

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
5/23/2018 10:32 am

    Quoting Poknfun69:
    I’ve seen the same with a female from 3 different places
I've been given a few possible explanations, so who knows what the answer is. I was just curious how or why this would happen.

He could very well be legit, or he could be a game player and fake.

It was just strange to me that the profile said one location, but when you hovered over the profile a different one would show.

But strange things happen on this site all the time....lol

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endththelesson 59M

5/24/2018 2:59 am

Robot would be my best bet. I have people look at my profile and flirt / hotlist me from all over the world. They are usually young drop dead gorgeous ladies from places far from me. If it is to good to be true... it is. This site bugs me as well. A standard member should at least be able to look at a profile for general safety. This is the internet!


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
6/2/2018 6:15 pm

    Quoting endththelesson:
    Robot would be my best bet. I have people look at my profile and flirt / hotlist me from all over the world. They are usually young drop dead gorgeous ladies from places far from me. If it is to good to be true... it is. This site bugs me as well. A standard member should at least be able to look at a profile for general safety. This is the internet!
Could be bots...I guess anything is possible on this site. There always seems to be some issue or another.

This one is weird though, there have been 3 different locations for this particular profile, but maybe they move around a lot.

I agree that standard members should be able to view profiles at the very least. But it seems like they are taking more and more away.

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
6/2/2018 6:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Always kinda best to pay a bit of attention to what goes on - on this site. Lots of fakes, scammers, and flakes!

Good luck!

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shavedguy92 59M

6/3/2018 7:47 pm

Hello, Tom here in ny. Ive seen the same person in two different places. Sometimes the wording in the profile is the same, sometimes not. Like a cut and paste. Which leads me to believe that it would be a scam profile. AdultXXXDate is part of a group of sites that are run by the same conglomerate. Some profiles are not even real, just computer generated algorithms to produce more traffic on the site. Some profiles have U.S. or Canada locations, but are really overseas. Ya have to learn to spot the fakes. Be Careful. Hope This helps you. Have a good day. TF in NY


shavedguy92 59M

6/3/2018 7:52 pm

Its called Ghosting.


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