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RavenGB 57M  
609 posts
3/14/2018 11:14 am

The hypocrisy would lie on their side - choice would lie on yours. Apart from purely physical attraction, why would you want to be with somebody happy to deceive their lover? The German swinger fraternity has a nice expression: alles kann, nichs muss - everything is allowed, nothing must happen.

OldrHarleyGuy 67M  
422 posts
3/14/2018 11:20 am

Well, bluntly, yes, you are a hypocrite, but then aren't we all at some time or the other? It is part of being human and everyone has been there at one point in time or the other and those that claim not to be are damn liars. I understand where you are coming from, since what you are being critical of has happened to you in reality, but then also remember that all circumstances are different as to why guys or gals seek gratifications outside of the commitment or marriage. It's only right to seek out what the circumstances are though in my opinion and make any and all decisions on the basis of that. you are only being human as I said though.
Anyway, in my situation, I get turned down often because I'm still married, it doesn't seem to matter that we have been separated now for over twelve years and the only reason not for divorce is medical and financial.

windsjohn 67M  
640 posts
3/14/2018 12:18 pm

Are you human? yes.
Now me: Human? yes.
Hypocrite? Yes
Portray a different side in public? yes.
Guilty on all counts.

rm_donman6100 55M
16 posts
3/14/2018 12:32 pm

Good post

rm_donman6100 55M
16 posts
3/14/2018 12:32 pm

Like what you written

wantaplay8 65M
5217 posts
3/14/2018 12:54 pm

I have been wrong a few times so I would not say you are wrong for your choices. I will say "it takes two to tangle." I will also say "live life as you want to or makes you happy!"

maybejustrex4 52M  
2388 posts
3/14/2018 2:11 pm

I would never tell you how to be you. That is your choice. If nothing else, I think this experience has shown that hard and fast rules don't always cover the complexities of the actual world.

I would only say that you should be at least as forgiving to yourself as you would be to anyone else.

CleavageFan4U 62M  
55179 posts
3/14/2018 3:38 pm

I'm as honest as the judgmental attitudes of others allow me to be. More than anything else I try very hard not to hurt others, and sometimes that requires a bit of shadings of the reality.

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citizen4722 61M  
59938 posts
3/16/2018 9:33 am

I guess I'm more shy in public than I portray here.
It takes two to tango remember

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