I’m seeking friends and lovers for amazing sex, and local fun. Ultimately what I’d like to find is a primary relationship I can call my own, monogamous/monogamish, and will choose mainly single, available partners who are open to LTRs with that in mind (Obviously will have my fun along the way and not every connection will result in anything serious, but still sticking to people more available, overall). I am not looking for men who are married or attached except for the very rare circumstance that fits my extremely narrow interests in a threesome. Very much anti-Trump, so if that's a problem, don't waste your time. Apparently I have to tell people this... I like strings, and men who are both kind and a little bossy. I can tell the difference between authenticity and bullshit, and need a bit of at least a little bit of time to connect before I’m ready for more. I am conflict avoidant, and yet, find ways to communicate when I'm unhappy that are lower on drama, in general. I'm just a standard member (unless they give me free gold--check for the gold ball). If you want me to reply, be sure to send me an intelligent email and some pictures that will pique my interest. Heteroflexible? When I say heteroflexible, that means I'm more sexually interested in men, and male minds and bodies, but I've found a couple females I've been interested in kissing. I'm not really going to go for a situation where really I feel like a woman wants me to be super into her. It's way too much pressure. Reminders: Remember that the people here looking for partners aren't doing the advertising and guarantee you nothing, even if the site, itself, does. As a real per, I'm only interested in respectful men who actually enjoy pleasing the women in their lives. P. S. I'm not only real...I'm a lot of fun in bed and out...I’m also confident, and I will treat your intentions as suspect until you've given me rea to feel otherwise. We're strangers--remember? If you are outside my predetermined age range, I won't reply. If you are outside my predetermined area, I won't reply. If you are particularly vague or boring, I may give you an opportunity to up your game. If you can't, I will no longer reply. Keep in mind: If you are feeling particularly testy after reading all of this, feel free to throw in your .02 in the battle between the sexes ON MY BLOG.

Min Idealperson Someone who knows how to take things one at a time, and is ultimately happy with whatever develops naturally, so not interested in people who are against letting a relationship develop. Looking for socially and emotionally adept males who understand consent, realize men need feminism just as much as women, and light my fire. AMAZING SEX is the goal here--I can hold my own in bed. The question is, can you?

Don't waste your time or mine if 2+ hours of sex doesn't sound like fun to you. I want endurance and a man or couple that likes to take charge.

If you want to know more...you can easily view my blog on the desktop version of this site.

Make sure you attach a picture.

Wait--there are rules?
There are rules for contacting single females on this site, or any internet dating site, whether you realize it or not:

1) Be interesting and interested.
2) Be forthcoming.
3) Convince the sexy, hot vixen that you are not a sociopath or psychopath waiting to r*p* or murder her in the dead of night.

Also, don't be a dick!

Safety Third:
Your job is to convince me you are a worthwhile and reasonable risk or I just hit delete. Every time. You may want to read this to help understand what women face when dealing with men on this site...that information is on my blog.

“Dick is abundant and low value” is something to consider when you are presenting yourself online. Google the term “dickonomics” to learn more. I’m a lot more interested in the person attached to the dick, and how respectful and compatible they might be.

Aaannnd one last time for the boys in the back...make sure you attach a picture!

Berätta om en av dina sexuella favoritfantasier. Var inte blyg!:
I would like to be an elf and live in Rivendell. Wait. What?

Vilken typ av sexuella aktiviteter gör dig kåt?:
Ge Oralsex, Being man handled

Vilka faktorer är viktigast för dig när du söker en sexpartner?:
Kroppslig attraktion, Mental/Emotional/Physical chemistry, endurance

Har du någonsin fantiserat om att ha sex med en känd person? Vem? Vad är det med dom som får dig att bli upphetsad?:
Celebrity? Geez, not sure that ever has been a thing for
me.

Har du någonsin haft cybersex?:
Jag har cybersex ganska ofta.

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