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Finding people to meet... ?
投稿日:2017年 3月 29日 8:40 pm
最終更新日時:2018年 8月 31日 11:43 am
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We have been trying for so long to find a LT friend. Its easy to find a one nighter...

We get on average of about 30 messages a week on this site. We have been on here for about 5 years, for a while under a different name. We have deleted a lot, but currently have about 2500 messages in our mail box we haven't deleted.

Here are the most common messages we get, slightly varied, but all the same. "I am a match, lets meet" or "I want to be your friend" or "Id like to fuck you" or my favorite, "You need a real man like me"

Nothing more, no info, nothing. And their profiles normally have a dick pic and about two sentences. Most spend more time putting disclaimers on their profile than actually saying anything about themselves.

I cant imagine, going to a bar, and there is this big plywood box with a hole in it, there is a dick hanging out of the hole, and a sign that says "i want to fuck you"
In what world does this actually work?

Who the hell is out there meeting random dicks for sex with out never seeing their face or body, and not even knowing anything about the person. is this really a thing? Do people actually do this? I cant imagine they do.
Yet, it seems most men seem to think that works. LOL

Im not 100% sure, but I think that only works on people you have to pay afterwards.

Why are people not sincere and honest? Say what they want, and what you hope for. What you are like and your personality. How about a photo? Great, there is a dick, your a man, so we hope you have one. LOL But really, you have to be attractive to us both. We all have different likes, different attractions. If we were desperate, we would just go to a bar and get drunk and leave a room key on the bar with a note that says come fuck us. Thats not how we work, we need an attraction not only physically, but mentally. We have a GREAT sex life together, we arent desperate

Why is it when you are looking at a COUPLE, whats with all the people wanting to meet one of us? We are a couple. If you dont want a couple, dont contact a couple lol Sure we may meet someone alone from time to time, but we dont need an add on AdultXXXDate to do that Then there is the BI guys that arent BI, just trying to meet couples for the woman. Come on, we are smarter than that. lol

Anyway, we find it comical at the things men seem to think work. Im sure most of them never get laid ever, they have no idea how to attract some one.

Has any one ever had a meet with a dick pic and a one liner? We are really curious... We just want to know if that actually works for people.
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How did we get here? AND Our thoughts on swinging....
投稿日:2017年 3月 29日 8:07 pm
最終更新日時:2018年 8月 31日 11:46 am
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Hello all,
Glad your reading this!!

Although we have been together going on 7 years, this time, our history brought us to here and our hearts were together for the last 25 years.

We both were a couple when we were teenagers. We got along too well... we got too close, and we got scared. We never fought, we really just loved spending time together. One day, we call it quits. No reason, just young, dumb, and scared of commitment.

We both got married at a young age, to the next relationship, with a pregnancy. Our sons are one month apart in age. We both got stuck with a spouse completely opposite of our desires, wants, and needs. Our spouses were more controlling than anything, takers, not givers. We both just wore ourselves out trying to keep our spouse happy. You get to a point when you just dont care anymore, and stop trying. When a husband says to his wife, you have to have sex with me, you have to get me off, I own you, and I have a piece of paper that says so, its time to leave. When a wife that thinks partying and drinking with 20 year olds is better than being a wife or mother, its time to leave. Not only was that our spouses, both of our spouses were cheating. We both stayed with our spouses for a few more years, we swore til death do us part, but eventually getting divorced. Why did we stay so long??

Both of us, after 18 years of marriage, found ourselves divorced... would you believe we never spoke for that 18 years, even though we thought of each other always!

We met a couple times, and picked up right where we left off 18 years earlier!
We are soul mates, we adore each other, we both hate that we gave up our most attractive and best years away to someone else that didnt appreciate us.

One thing we have 100% of, honesty. We talk about everything, we hide nothing, we share fantasies, wants, needs, desires, etc.
Part of that is realizing, every person has sexual desires. Every person has fantasies. In most marriages, you have to keep those to yourselves. You dont want to be laughed at, called names, belittled, etc. We have a nearly perfect marriage and friendship. We tell each other anything, no judgement. We respect each other. We live life as one, not two individuals. We are one. Our friends have to see us as ONE, if they see us as individuals, they are not friends.

Sex has two roles outside of making children....

1. It builds and bonds a relationship. You connect as one, in a caring loving fashion. Making love. Soft, sensual, spirited, and soul binding with the right person.

2. Pleasure, fantasy, excitement, experimenting, trying new things, and letting your mind go crazy. Much like going to a concert, or a theme park to ride a roller coaster, etc. Its just fun, exciting, and pleasurable. They imagination is your own limit.

These two things, although both involve sexual contact, are two entirely different things! One is for binding and love, the other is for pleasure. You can do anything you want or desire for pleasure and excitement, and not ever involve love. How awesome is it to make a realization that you CAN live out fantasies, and seek pleasure, and not involve love, or effect your love life. When two people have complete trust and love for each other, this really isnt that hard to pull off. Its making your spouse your number one, ALWAYS. "Friends" are toys that you play with for fun and pleasure, they do not in any way count when it comes to the marriage. Separation is very important.

You have boundaries, and certain things that belong to your spouse only. These things are Never shared. You dont talk about your personal life and secrets with a friend. You dont share your feelings. You dont share the cuddeling, and romance. You dont share your personal life. You dont share your soul.

Swinging is not ever for a relationship "missing something" and is never for a "replacement" for anything else in your relationship. If you share those things with a "friend" you are not swinging, you are cheating. Way too many people confuse swinging and cheating. They are not in anyway connected or like each other. In Swinging, your spouse and their feelings always come first. When cheating, its all about you and selfishness, you really dont care and just want to get off. Very very stark difference. One other huge difference in swinging, we LOVE watching each other be pleasured! There is no better high than watching your spouse moan with pleasure HOT. Cheating creates jealousy... again, another stark difference.

Thats our take!
Let us know your thoughts!
M and J
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