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How clean are you? STI/STD testing  

Rose_Sapphire 48F
7 posts
12/25/2016 9:44 am
How clean are you? STI/STD testing


Why AdultXXXDate prohibit talking about safer sex? Tell me specifically what's wrong and why you always need to ban my blog?
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I need my play partner-to-be to get tested STI before playing with me.
A safer sex is a must for me. I’d like to control things I can control before it gets into my system, so is why I am writing this to protect myself.

According to all of the STI/STD control centers;

“There's a period of time after a person is infected during which they won't test positive. This is called the STI/HIV “window period."
The window period can be from 10 days to 3 months, depending on the person’s body and on the STI test that is used.

During that time, you can test STI/HIV-negative even though you're STI/HIV-positive. You can still get STI/HIV from someone who is in the window period. In fact, there is evidence that a person in the window period is more likely to pass the virus on."

Which means that at least you need 90 days of “window period” to know you are completely free from those STI.

After all it is for your own health sake to test yourself after the required window period for the testing type you are taking - so you should ask your clinic and/or the center you go for checking what the required window period for the test they use. Sometime it is 60 days.

If you give oral pleasure to your playmate and deep kissing, wearing a condom doesn't protect you much.

Without the clean test result, I do not even feel like kissing a guy honestly saying.

Happy safer sex ♥


Make_U_Cum2016 55M/52F  
2113 posts
12/25/2016 7:34 pm

You are right.

STI's are a problem which could be life threatening.

You are 100% correct in your strict nature and attitude.

Me personally.......I prefer to use condoms, until we both have verified everything is good......and we have established trust.

I love the concept of condoms.......but they just make sex feel so terrible

I wish there was a condom that truly felt like it was not there.

Difficult to get hard or stay hard with condoms......consistently.

It's hard always doing the right thing.

"Be selective in your battles, for sometimes Peace is better than being right"

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Rose_Sapphire replies on 12/27/2016 9:15 am:
@Make_U_Cum2016

Thank you for your comment.

Condoms help. But as long as a couple give oral job to one another with deep kisses... it doesn't matter.

To test every time before new partner is kind of a manner, I feel. But you should get tested ONLY after the required "window period" after your last sexual exposure.

osaka_aussie 44M
3 posts
3/27/2017 12:47 am

Everything you have said is correct.
Its nice to see someone who feels and thinks this way and isn't afraid to say it.
I know there is probably a stereotype that men don't worry about things like this and will just carelessly fuck anything and everything but i also have the same concerns as you when i'm with a new partner.
It makes you feel much safer to know your partner is clean and you can fully give yourselves to each other.


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