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this is an interesting question. Not the usual version of it. When I started this site I had pics of me in various underwear. No reaction whatsoever. One cock pic and suddenly I was popular. I had requests for more. I complied. Then I read the blogs and many female bloggers complain that they don't want to see cocks. Such a conundrum. I prefer to seduce and be seduced which means wearing a little something. but it's all a matter of individual taste.
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Very reasonable query Most of my profile pics are nude although cock shots in a private folder Never really posed in a suit or boxers or hean or specific shirt etc for women as rarely get a request, and the truth of the matter is that without asking women via my blog, I wouldn't have a clue Deep down I know the ultimate truth is that despite wanting women, I'm aware as I age and eat more shit and exercise less, that where I am in my head, I really don't give a fuck about it and probably wouldn't make the effort anyway
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I've heard most women don't like the cock pics, at least not right away,
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I enjoy seeing a man in a suit and I know I will.be defying most women on here, but a cock shot that is actually yours is what I also like to see x
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What... are you trying to dress this place up.  Are you looking more for like going out attire or back home attire or sex site attire?  Vive La Difference
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Whatever floats your boat is great attire!
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to answer your curiosity above. Mostly women. And they ask for cock pics.
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5/9/2017 5:12 pm |
On this site you can wear a Burlap Bag and it really doesn't matter...
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It has been said over and over again on blogs women want to see more than a cock pic all the time, again and again most men answer is to try and fight with women about it, WHY? just listen to us for once, WE ARE SAYING IT IS MORE TO YOUR SEX APPEAL THAN YOUR COCK, and we want to see another side of it, MEN ARE YOU GETTING IT NOW?
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I really like the kind of shots and poses that a certain Hawaiian tattooed man does ... but I also really like a man in maybe just jeans with the button undone, or a dress shirt unbuttoned. A sexy side shot of a butt and thigh. A sexy smile. Something that doesn't show EVERYTHING and leaves the best to the imagination and makes me want to ask about the rest!! Guys ... these are the kinds of pics women want to see. Something about you has GOT to attract women ... take of picture of that!!!
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OOhhhhh Myyyyyyyyy Friggin Gaaawwwddd, Whhhhhaaaaaat The Fuuuuuuuuck. Laaaawwwdd you waassss born a raaammmmblinnnn blogger. Merriam and Webster both called . . . from their graves.  When they stopped spinning they said they want ALL their words back. Including the only 2 you didn’t use – brevity and abbreviation. They also said Howard Cosell passed out while reading that. So as soon as Google’s computers are recovered and find the question I’ll come back and answer it.Fo shizzel . . . WORDssssssssssssssss  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I really like the kind of shots and poses that a certain Hawaiian tattooed man does ... but I also really like a man in maybe just jeans with the button undone, or a dress shirt unbuttoned. A sexy side shot of a butt and thigh. A sexy smile. Something that doesn't show EVERYTHING and leaves the best to the imagination and makes me want to ask about the rest!! Guys ... these are the kinds of pics women want to see. Something about you has GOT to attract women ... take of picture of that!!! I need a really great kiss!!
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I, also, wonder if bestfriend has ever met these women? Are they from his area, or somewhere that is so far away, it's just fake? I need a really great kiss!!
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5/9/2017 7:23 pm |
A suit, or nice shirt and slacks.
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There are a couple types of shots that will ALWAYS get my attention, but physical attraction also plays a big part. 1. A guy dressed up in a shirt and tie. Suit porn is a big turn on. He diesn't have to show his face. 2. An artfully composed pic of a bodypart other than his dick. Butt, pecs, back, shoulders, chin and neck, etc. 3. Black and White Photos. 5. A picture of a confident man engaged in non-sexual activity. 6. An attractive face. If the picture is exceptionally good, I often send a compliment, and if the profile is complete abd well written, I will compliment it as well. Most guys are appreciative and will send a nice message back. I think the guys who are doing what I consider "the right thing" deserve to know that at least 1 woman appreciates theceffort. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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I'll be wearing some sheets tomorrow (HNW), prancing around, and striking elegant poses. Thoughts from the Garden...
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I tend to wear blue jeans and a t-shirt or jogging pants because I like to be very comfortable and on Sundays I wear a nice polo shirt and slacks or a suit, shirt and tie if I feel like it?
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Always a quandary as to what to wear to turn a woman on, but asking often helps & wearing it only when necessary or as a 'surprise' helps in keeping it exciting. I also agree with OAKKING "average" body for a male pushing 50+ year old is normally running to extra padding around the belly & waist, pubic mound (yes men have them too) & the pectorals, so we tend to avoid pics in the buff. As for women, in my personal opinion lingerie is just garnishing on the cake, although them always wearing stockings & suspenders always a turn on, there's just something about the bare area of flesh at the top of the thigh! Though young flesh can be nice I much prefer the older woman’s body that shows some of the signs of a full life, especially that of child birth, the fullness and slight sagging of the breasts, the extra fullness and puckering that breastfeeding brings to the nipples, and particularly the slight paunching that is the aftermath of the distension of the belly
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Yes, rambled a bit, but still got there, and raised some interesting points. I know many ladies like "suit porn" and have posted that in blogs on occasion, though none on my profile as I recall. I guess the main difference is, there is TONS of lingerie for women to wear, but not clear what the male equivalent is - though RIGHT, I've never asked either. So tell me now, I do exclusively wear string bikini undershorts, and have posted in the blogs with those, but again, don't think any on my profile. A Flowery Tribute, on HNW Do NOT Go There I Finally Figured Out Why I Like This Site [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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5/10/2017 6:02 am |
At one time I had a "mirrored ass pic", a thong pic, I even had a few sex vid clips, and every one had the same results: some good comments, some directing how the pic "should be done", but the comments that always stayed with me were the negative ones: butt pics are "gay", thongs are for girls, seeing a guy with a woman is a turn-off. So, in the end, you can only blame your fellow females for the lack of "male boudoir" pics. One local woman sent me a scathing message because of a video where I was getting head, complaining that "once again women NEVER get oral", despite the fact I had pics AND vids showing just that. The problem as I see it, there are so few women, and so many choices for them, many have forgotten how to be polite.
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5/10/2017 3:50 pm |
Sorry, I should have been more specific, "you can blame your RUDE fellow females for lack of male boudoir pics". Some people, men too, go out of their way to poop on everyone's parade. I blocked and ignored for a while, but eventually I noticed that when I got "you've been viewed" notice, I cringed more often than grinned.
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I really don’t dress to be sexy; I dress to be comfortable wherever I’m going to be – a.k.a. for me. If me ain’t sexy to whoever I’m with, clothes can’t change that. Summer = Hawaiian shirts and shorts, not summer = jeans and a long sleeve shirt. I actually feel fine in my firesuit. Fo shizzel When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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At one time I had a "mirrored ass pic", a thong pic, I even had a few sex vid clips, and every one had the same results: some good comments, some directing how the pic "should be done", but the comments that always stayed with me were the negative ones: butt pics are "gay", thongs are for girls, seeing a guy with a woman is a turn-off. So, in the end, you can only blame your fellow females for the lack of "male boudoir" pics. One local woman sent me a scathing message because of a video where I was getting head, complaining that "once again women NEVER get oral", despite the fact I had pics AND vids showing just that. The problem as I see it, there are so few women, and so many choices for them, many have forgotten how to be polite. Amen Bro  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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5/10/2017 4:40 pm |
Ok, I won't say "I'm not rude like those guys". All the people who aren't rude, men and women, suffer for those ignorant few. So, what's their excuse? I have no idea, dropped as a baby, not smacked enough, bad day at work, I don't know the answer, and I don't know why this woman attacked me, over and over, something about me pissed her off. It would be sad if all the women took their pics down because of a few jerks, but I would understand. When the excitement of checking your "comments" is outweighed by the thought of another bad seed trashing your pics for unknown reasons, at a point you have no desire to play the game anymore.
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So, for example, the middle shot in my HNW this week: I know you don't speak for all women, but since you brought it up, is THAT the kind of thing you like? (Though I realize having another woman in it is more or less a no-no for a profile shot. Assume she was not there - then?) A Flowery Tribute, on HNW Do NOT Go There I Finally Figured Out Why I Like This Site [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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I can't and don't make excuses for people I don't know. But what it seems like you are saying is if someone else's behavior is crude that makes it OK to be impolite. Or they can place themselves above the crudeness and - Ignore/delete and block it. All being impolite or crude does is create drama, posting about it stirs up the drama further. This goes for men and women - the numbers are irrelevant IMO. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I like a man I jeans and a white shirt. leave the shirt unbuttoned if you have the chest for it. or a casual shot doing something. a glaring face shot or a dickpic. or your business pic.........nope You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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Well, I have photos of me in clothes and in my birthday suit. Usually I dress casually when I meet up with someone from here. Either Khakis and a Polo shirt or dark jeans with a Polo shirt. Once, I met with someone in a suit because I was meeting with a client prior to our rendezvous. The problem with wearing a suit is that in Florida, it's hard to stay cool and not sure it's sexy for ladies to see the map of the US as arm pit stains. Overall, dress for comfort but not like I am about to go to the gym or to a sports bar to watch a game with the guys. I can't post pics on here for some reason so I will just message them to you.
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There are so many things I'd think you could do with the suit in Florida premise and make a set of photos.  Perhaps you can mail me some of your suggestions. 
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Imma just say that I don't work much at attracting men beyond presenting my best and most authentic self. I want them to work for MY affections. They better look good online and they better look good in person or I sure as hell am not interested in looking at them, let alone making out with them and doing all the other things I'm very good at.   MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}
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just be ya self an peps well like ya 
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In my day a nice 3 piece double breasted suit. with a nice pair of well shined shoes. I don't even own a suit of any kind these days. Most shoes are just athletic shoes. I just I just don't strut around like a peacock anymore. Maybe I should go shopping as much as I hate to.
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