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Dirtykinky77 42M/38F
15 posts
3/10/2017 5:34 pm


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
3/10/2017 6:05 pm

It exists. At least for me it does.
It's sex that's so good it leaves you totally worn out, sated, relaxed and when you fall asleep, you sleep soundly for hours and when you wake, you've still got that glow you went to sleep with...from the mind-blowing sex.

Pagan
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mc_justmc 63M

3/10/2017 6:57 pm

I would imagine if Ihad mind blowing sex, I wouldn't have much of a mind to remember it. So, who knows, I'd like to think that I've had it many times, already.


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
3/10/2017 6:58 pm

Well it was so mind blowing that I can't seem to get back into my mind to be able to explain it.

"Mind Blowing" isn't a term I use for anything but adrenaline can add an edge or intensity. Being turned on to the point where every touch or sensation is electrifying and intense can elevate the experience to a very memorable time.

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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/10/2017 7:16 pm

I can't say I've had mind blowing sex, but maybe I have and didn't know it, because my mind was blown. I haven't really sought it out because that whole expectations things can eventually get in the way. Of course that is kinda odd because this is a . . . sex site.

I have had very damn near close to mind blowing blow jobs - if that counts. And it came (cummed) from someone I met on a . . . a . . . sex site. Oh man ain't that just drippin with . . . irony?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/10/2017 7:18 pm

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Uhmmm . . . are you suggesting you have experienced time when women were . . . coherent to you?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/10/2017 7:53 pm

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WOW, you understand their utterances that . . . blows my mind

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
3/10/2017 8:29 pm

Wantingsexymind2 has pretty much nailed it. It is an individual judgement, and as such can be anything to anybody. In the end it is only semantics.

Mind blowing on!


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
3/10/2017 8:37 pm

This is another case of imprecision language.

Personally, I tend not to use terms like "mind blowing sex' because it sounds more like something someone read in a porn story than something that real people actually say. The problem is that you can't quantify the quality of a sexual encounter (or any other pleasurable experience for that matter). There is no way of knowing if your "great sex" is worse, better, or the same as someone else's "mind blowing sex".

Have I had sex so good that I'll remember it when I'm deep in the depths of dementia? Yes. What do I call it? Very, very good sex. I've referred to it as screaming monkey sex (with tongue firmly in cheek). But "mind blowing sex"? I'm a serious hedonist, I'll leave that phrase to the amateurs


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
3/11/2017 6:14 am

Your posts (however infrequent) always make me think.

My take is similar to several other here in perceiving this to be as much of a language issue as anything - a term used to describe something even beyond "great sex". Though what dear Kinkyfem describes (not even being able to form a sentence!) surely does sound like mind-blowing sex, and surely she'd be a strong bet to have been there.

As for me personally, I'm pretty well grounded. I explored and experienced a great number of things (both sexual and NON-sexual) that I've tremendously, but have always been able to walk, and form a sentence, afterwards.

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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
3/11/2017 6:22 am

Some people's mind's can't be blown , some people's minds are easy to blow - don't sweat it .

One time a dude says to me his mind was blown by a basket of chicken wings . Another dude observed a supernova exploding and he was all "whatever" .

The search for mind blowing sex is not about seeking out sex it's about creating a state wherein your mind is capable of being blown . With X mostly .

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
3/11/2017 7:41 am

Its kind of hard to explain, but simply a man who seduces my mind relaxes me, and knows how to please me and at the end of it if I can't move and my eyes have rolled completely in the back of my head well then he's blown my mind..have a great weekend hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


northshoretake2 49M  
1626 posts
3/11/2017 8:57 am

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Indeed. Some women can be so cryptic.

Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
3/11/2017 6:02 pm

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Yup, the inability to say more than gibberish afterwards is how I define mind-blowing sex. It does not happen often... Usually I'm quite capable of saying "how about another round?"


cs1df2 41M
1463 posts
3/12/2017 12:36 pm

So I'm not so sure that it even exists ...... or perhaps just not for me as I'm sitting here wondering if the propensity for experiencing mind-blowing sex is relative to the mental capacity of the person to conceive abstract situations (which by the way seems to have very little to do with a person's overall intelligence).

...or to put it another way, if a person can imagine all the ways they could potentially be stimulated sexually it'd seem rather less than mind-blowing to have someone actually perform those acts...... but then again I might just be over-analyzing things ;P


redhotfun4you2 61F  
1596 posts
3/12/2017 12:42 pm

I actually had this discussion with a guy friend of mine a few months ago. We joked that mind blowing sex would be when you get to a point of feeling you have lost your mind; when you are not actually able to speak and babble like an idiot. Now is this what mind blowing sex is? I can't say I have ever experienced it. I do think that to achieve it there needs to be that level of complete connection and trust.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
3/12/2017 1:00 pm

have you ever had sex where your brain kind of disengages? where you're just sensation or colors or visuals? where you talk in tongue?

not druggy sex. but where your body is running things, not your brain. seeing things........

it's another world. I remember the first time it happened to me and I kinda snapped out of it and I was sort of shocked. then all I oculd think of was ho wi wanted to get back there......... takes a good lover to move you there.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
3/14/2017 4:41 am

Yes, I think it does exist. But for me anyway, it is rare, in fact it has only happened to me once. Well, lots of times, but all with the same person. (If you are really interested I have written a lot about her on my blog and you can find my description of mind blowing sex in, among others, [post600340].

I think it takes a combination of factors, and although before I met the Lioness I had had one or two relationships with really great sex and didn't think I had an awful lot left to learn about how to please a woman, I certainly had not realised just how good it could be for me until I met her. Up to a point I now think it is something you actually do need to learn or be taught. Also you need to be with the right person, feel permitted by them to totally relax and indulge yourself as well as wanting to please them too. And you have to somehow fit with them, emotionally and physically - quite hard to describe, but you know it when it happens!

You know how with a first kiss, sometimes you need to learn how a new partner likes to kiss and be kissed? But other times it just seems perfect right from the very start? Well I suppose it is a bit like that, and when all the circumstances come together and the fit is just right and you have learned about each other and can trust each other to just let go and get lost in the moment, with your mind not wandering onto other things.....with you mind barely operating at all in fact, then........BAM!


cs1df2 41M
1463 posts
3/17/2017 11:32 am

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Yup ....though I don't disagree with the comment someone else made about creating the state of mind where it can be blown .... though for me it's really a question of is it worth the effort to do so with a particular person.....

Though in my personal opinion doing that mental shift is probably (at this point in time) easier for most men in this culture (US) due to all the idiotic "measures of masculinity" that revolve around sex. To be honest, I'd say there are some who actually believe those measures are "reality" ....an then they get all butt hurt when they get used in the same sort of manner they've been using women (i.e. reduced to being just another ego boost)


CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
3/19/2017 6:12 am

Mind blowing sex... nope.

Memorable sex, yes.

Once i had to have three inches of the bedsheet removed after a really great blow job.


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
3/23/2017 4:39 am

I have had mind- and body-numbing sex like the type wickedeasy, aflower2c and Wantingsexymind2 describe. I would call those experiences great sex... It can be a bit scary, when the muscles spasm, or fingers, toes and the nape of my neck go all numb. Once I recall I was hallucinating, and I was told later that I was mumbling incoherently.
But... Is that really about the sex, or the central nervous system acting funny?

I would like to think of "mind blowing" as being the times when I and my partner are so into each other and into being sexual that we switch off the world around us (as much as that is possible) and don't do much else besides sex. It just happens, it can't be planned, it can't be stopped... We just go on and on and on. I remember with one person it lasted 3 days in bed, only getting up to go to the bathroom and the refrigerator.


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