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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
10/4/2017 5:30 pm

You keep on keepin' on!!!!!!!!!! and Happy Birthday!!


benard69 66M/66F  

10/4/2017 5:33 pm

Reality is the best thing...If you are hoping to hook up for fun the truth will come out. So why bullshit folks with something they will never see...Perfect people suck anyways....


thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
10/4/2017 5:45 pm

He's and Idiot lol You look Marvelous

My Pic are all the real deal


turtle6587 64M
137 posts
10/4/2017 5:47 pm

Happy Birthday and you look Marvelous


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
10/4/2017 5:48 pm

Happy HNW! I think photos should show who you are...especially if there is intent to meet. If I lived there, we would meeteven if for coffee and friendship.
I have never photoshopped or filtered a photo ....I don't know how. I only resize (make smaller) I do try to take photos straight on or from the back....if I did a body side view, I would look very pregnant..you can see my moobs.
I lost weight until I went to Hawaii and now I have to re-lose


OldrHarleyGuy 72M

10/4/2017 5:51 pm

Number one, miss, you have no need to try to filter or stage to get better shots, you are gorgeous and don't need it. There are us older guys that aren't into those trying to be models anyway, but looking for those that are real. Unfiltered, up front and real is what I'm looking for and want the most, get the BS out of the way and be real and honest about everything. I'm not into perfect people, but don't make it look like something it is not. I've had 4 meets from this site and 3 out of the 4 were BS with all kinds of deceit and lies before meeting.


dafocker44 64M
986 posts
10/4/2017 6:02 pm

Ya know, some people have no class. Being on this site has a way of taking away the surprise of it all. You're a sexy woman! Whether you're naked or wearing a Packers jersey!!
I think we all carry more than we should, so I am not gonna show you what I carry that I should really get rid of!!

Hope you have a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

[I]Da Focker!!


lariverman65 60M
2856 posts
10/4/2017 6:10 pm

Darlin you look great just as you are and anyone that can not see that is a waste of your time . Happy birthday

I guess it's just the cowboy in me


AmorphousAmor 64M
3574 posts
10/4/2017 6:13 pm

I would accept a disgusted kiss from you any day of the week, half-naked, full-naked, unfiltered and/or clothed... *swoon*

Happy Birthday btw when you read this! 💋


SelflessLover068 64M

10/4/2017 6:17 pm

I just take a pic and post... I'm more than a pic... I know it's the physical appearance that attracts us first... But you may as well know what I look like naturally or it's false presentation in mind... Ya like me or ya don't


HedonicHeathen 56M
198 posts
10/4/2017 6:48 pm

Oh c'mon peoples ... any photo can lie even the most unfiltered and raw ... just consider framing and lighting and all the stuff that can be considered pre-processing.

Ya'll really want all nudes to be lit like an autopsy with one way mirror or buffet with spit guard?

I look at gamour mags (for the articles) and am amazed that these all natural beauties can just waltz in and give a shoot without any dieting ahead of time and using average cameras and equipment and always have the best pose to give the view to their perfect skin that never needs makeup - only to get covered in cum a few minutes later ... life of glamour - amazing.

Of course we are all gonna 'hide' what we are not so fond of ... whether that be by dedicating outselves to a gym and diet regiment OR by lighting and post picture processing.

Mostly it is either age or weight. I mean yeah I could post or send very unflattering images that are totally honest ... but is that the kinda attitude you'd want to meet up with ... yeah here is what I'm not proud of ... right in your face - no shame no self-consciousness no social cue awareness of the cultured queue. Autistically presented ... then have zero concern for how it might get rejected cuzz you know I'm not perfect, but part of me that is is being totally OK with being rejected (OK being a guy at 50 has given me ample experience dealing with surface repulsions).

All that said ... yeah don't post pics that aren't you. And some expected etiquette is important. If you want clear face pics - send yours first! You want clear body pics then don't be vague as fuck about what you want in terms of age or physical presentation. All this kinda rude sh!t is what makes it more difficult to pull off the presentation of a mature sexuality that is OK with his/herself and so on ... snub nazis of course aren't gonna read this cuz they are gonna claim to be to busy getting busy ... though the majority of full time 24/7 swinger sex sect set generally are far more picky and get less 'action' ... though to be real - that is part of the pull off - Interesting how one can still insulate themselves from rejection even though physically they appear idyllic and verbally claim to be 'active in some or other seen'.

tl;dr- pro filtering I do it and find some of the more artistic pics to be something I'm more likely to revisit.

[image]


rachel0718 58F
20470 posts
10/4/2017 7:11 pm

Darlin’, you are beautiful the way you are. I have never filtered photo of myself on the site and yes, I’ve used a few of the tricks to make me look better. But if they can’t except us for who we are, fuck ‘em… they aren’t worth the time.


Rachel Mae


travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
10/4/2017 7:25 pm

Just. Beautiful.

Embrace the suck


topherific 61M
5209 posts
10/4/2017 8:35 pm

enjoy your birthday and i would love the chance to have a beer with you


oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
10/4/2017 9:15 pm

I have to admit, the camera angle on my pic did wonders. Its a couple of years old and should do a new one. Reading your blog, It didn't take me long to see where true beauty lies. Bodies change. They expand, contract, sag, wrinkle and what the hell is going on here. You can have a book with a pretty cover, but it doesn't mean the story is good.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
10/4/2017 9:18 pm

If someone can't love us for who we truly are, then they aren't worth are time.

Btw- I always use the smoke & mirrors filter.

Thoughts from the Garden...


rick315875 65M

10/5/2017 12:44 am

Keep it real. Happy birthday.

if he's interested in you
because of what you can do
or how you look
instead of who you are
then he's not worth the time


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
10/5/2017 1:07 am

My photo is cropped but otherwise unedited. However it was taken about 20 years ago!

Happy birthday for later in the week.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
10/5/2017 1:54 am

Good Morning J Happy Birthday You are a Beautiful Person

[image]

And the Loser that stopped talking to you was a 6' Adonis, NOT!!


Visit my Blog Older but no Wiser and find out more


Dmd7707atg 67M
36 posts
10/5/2017 4:31 am

Happy Birthday!

It has happened to me, I send pictures to those that request. More than once I have gotten ignored and sometimes blocked. I am always truthful so it hurts that they can't be honest and say something. I am so much more than a picture and I know that you are too.


txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
10/5/2017 4:55 am

Sweets you look awesome.. i like the unfiltered!!! I would say i am sorry for the guy who stopped talking to you, but he is just a idiot!! I would look at you any day, any nite, anytime i was lucky enough to!!!!


mdtallguy 64M
34 posts
10/5/2017 6:35 am

I like the GFY....we are what we are and thats life. Sometimes life is good to us sometimes not, but we must make the best of what we are dealt.

Happy Birthday to you and look forward to more!!!!


hrdallnght4u 67M

10/5/2017 7:07 am

Happy Birthday Sexy...I would love to take You for drinks on Your Birthday..We
could celebrate both of our B-days since Mine is the 7th..The pic is lovely..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
10/5/2017 7:13 am

You can't filter real inside beauty. It is either there or it isn't. You my friends are real true and beautiful always.
Happy birthday... (Y)o-o?*>>!


oldpervct 65M

10/5/2017 7:15 am

If you actually intend to meet why hide anything?


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
10/5/2017 8:02 am

We all have flaws of some kind. They are what make us unique.
You've gone with the underwear theme.
Filtered or not, you look supreme.
Happy HNW and Happy Birthday


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/5/2017 9:54 am

J..Happy Birthday my friend your Beautiful as ever, and yes I think most of us ladies are harder on ourselves than the men are..I hope you have a Fantastic Birthday today..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
10/5/2017 9:58 am

I've said it before, I'll repeat it, there are few things in life more beautiful than a beautiful woman maturing with grace.............


submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
10/5/2017 10:00 am

As we grow older, the body doesn't look as good, me included. Once you gain the weight, it's a bitch to loose!
However, I more value your thoughts, your kindness, your wit, and how thoughtful you are to others, Honey! Looks aren't anything if you don't have personality!
I love you just the way you are!


Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad!
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wjb1958 65M
3739 posts
10/5/2017 10:38 am

Happy Birthday I'm in favor of being real , You look GREAT


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
10/5/2017 10:41 am

It's really very sad if someone only wants to know you because of your looks....that man who ceased contact with you is a shallow dickhead and not worth a moment of your time.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


1horizon 102M

10/5/2017 11:37 am

What a can of worms!

First, Happy happy.

I'd have to admit that I'm a little curious about what folks look like, but I know that making any kind of connection has little to do with appearance. Filtered? I get enough filter in my life. I want the truth, the unfiltered. The photos here are none of that, just an artistic exercise, which is fine, but it has to be recognized for what it is.

So dress up. That's an expression of who you are. Use the filters and the poses. Really, that can be fun and enjoyable. In the end I want 20 minutes of good conversation to see you really are.

That's the beginning of understanding.


wantaplay8 70M
5606 posts
10/5/2017 2:40 pm

Why post a photo of yourself that hides what you don't like...When two people meet there is no hiding our bodies or looks. Then what?..A person can have a great body but be a not so good person to hang around with or try to have a relationship with. Good looking don't mean diddly squat without a nice personality.
I have seen your photos and your profile description of yourself; what I saw and read was not a person trying to hide themselves.
My photos are unedited other than cropping off my head. They are about 5 years old or a bit less. The profile description of me is accurate.
That fellow might run into himself as a woman...we can hope that he would learn from such an experience.


babe4552 73F
30 posts
10/5/2017 4:46 pm

Honesty is not always available, the internet is good for that


luvexotic 62M

10/5/2017 5:50 pm

Much prefer to see the real person and not some filtered image of them. But then I much prefer what goes on between your ears than what you look like, besides we all get old and we all know our body does not tend to hold the same shape (and tightness) that we had when we were a lot younger.
Happy Birthday too


I_giv_pleasure 60M
2891 posts
10/5/2017 11:17 pm

I'm sure you look great. Pics are missing


52reddog 73M
456 posts
10/6/2017 7:36 am

Well . . . since the pics have 'disappeared' (big surprise,right???) . . . guess I'll just have to be theoretical. Raw & unvarnished for me, please. To me, altering a pic is kinda dishonest . . . that's truly NOT what a person looks like . . . & it WILL come to light sooner or later. But that brings a bigger question . . . why are people so fixated on appearance? The bottom line (to me, anyway) is that sex without friendship (at least) is pretty meaningless. So I've gotta 'like' someone first . . . & with that, appearances are pretty secondary. And, of course, the mind is the greatest sex organ.


52reddog 73M
456 posts
10/6/2017 7:37 am

Oh, yeah [duh] . . . I got so wrapped up in that "rant" that I forgot . . . Happy Birthday (mine was last month on the 25th . . . I'm gettin' olllllllddddd).


Jadefire79 33F
342 posts
10/6/2017 11:43 am

You are gorgeous.

Come check out my blog! Jadefire79
Stories, pictures, and more.


scottj55555 55M
1987 posts
10/10/2017 7:46 am

No one reveals everything about themselves at first. You have to find out if you trust this new person enough to be vulnerable and reveal what you see as flaws. I think if you take time to point them out immediately, then it draws focus, and too much, that early in getting to know someone.
Once they know you, and it's clear there's rapport or chemistry, then those types of things can be revealed on their own. If the chemistry/rapport is there, the other person likely won't care. It's about being you and not being the flaws.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
10/11/2017 10:21 am

I don't get it weren't there supposed to be pictures?

I hope you enjoyed your birthday.


Befunin2 70M
25 posts
10/14/2017 8:24 am

If you want to show it. I want to see it. Real pics are a turn on. The knowing you like to show is a turn on. thanks


franki2806 56M
59 posts
10/22/2017 10:58 pm

i have some from my vacation lets take one 2gether

hello sexy friends


Spiked_Log_Trap 48M
296 posts
10/28/2017 6:02 am

why not post pics with clothes on? any ol' pervert can get turned on by nude pics. If you truly want someone who appreciates you for you don't show the goods. They'll accept your physical flaws.

Just be sure to post only pics in sexy, feminine poses. That'll attract the ones you're looking for and the meat market shoppers will look for easier marks. granted you'll get a lot less attention on here, but you should get better attention.

theres a lot more guys here than you think who want more than just to hook up, but want a real connection and a relationship of some kind or at least ongoing meets.


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